Love & Marriage
UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy. He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department, except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.
I'm a 32B and always wanted beautiful breasts but nobody is perfect. However, ever since I mentioned it DH keeps bringing it up, saying it's up to me, he wants me to be happy, etc. Well, I was fine until he kept harping on it so yes, I get the idea, he thinks it would be great too. I adore him, love him totally and now feel self conscious like I did when we first met. I know he married me this way and he insists he loves me but I'm just depressed today. He'd be so sorry if he knew I couldn't get over worrying over this. I don't know whether I want to call a dr. office today for an appointment or toughen up and try to love the girls I have!
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I want a boob job...so if DH offered the cash to get one, i would DEFINITELY do it.
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I would never. They look obviously fake and really only last 10 year before they are supposed to be "replaced". Heeeeeck no. And DH wouldn't want me to anyway. He's not a fan of that stuff.
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He should be happy with the way you are not encourage you to get surgery to "make you feel better" he should make you feel better by telling you how much he loves your body exactly the way it is. Besides some people that have had breast cancer would be happy with whatever normal breasts they were given. Always appreciate the body you were given! :) -
If DH told me I could do it if I wanted to, i would do it. Mainly because I hate being uneven. I know we won't be able to afford it though, so I'll live with what I have. -
I'm glad that you two discussed things and worked it out! Sometimes we say things and they never sound as good coming out of our mouths as it did in our heads KWIM?
And for the suggestion of him having a penile implant, that was a joke LOL. Like, "I'll get this done when you have that done." ;)
Quoting Bertieb:
UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy. He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department, except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.
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If he was willing to pay for it . Yes