Love & Marriage
UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy. He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department, except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.
I'm a 32B and always wanted beautiful breasts but nobody is perfect. However, ever since I mentioned it DH keeps bringing it up, saying it's up to me, he wants me to be happy, etc. Well, I was fine until he kept harping on it so yes, I get the idea, he thinks it would be great too. I adore him, love him totally and now feel self conscious like I did when we first met. I know he married me this way and he insists he loves me but I'm just depressed today. He'd be so sorry if he knew I couldn't get over worrying over this. I don't know whether I want to call a dr. office today for an appointment or toughen up and try to love the girls I have!
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I'm 34B ...5'3...
I've always wanted implants which I'm getting once am done breastfeeding n DH is supportive n thrilled. He's paying lOl he says is my choice n always makes me feel beautiful no matter what(x
I love him. -
I'm 34B ...5'3...
I've always wanted implants which I'm getting once am done breastfeeding n DH is supportive n thrilled. He's paying lOl he says is my choice n always makes me feel beautiful no matter what(x
I love him. -
No need. My husband loves my tatas! -
I would if he was paying. DH always says how I can get a lift after I'm done BF'ing but that's something that we both want. If I didn't want it done he would simply have to live with them. -
Nope. Mine are too big as it is. In fact, if they don't shrink down after I'm done BF and lose weight, I'm going to have a reduction. Every time I lose weight, they are the one thing that doesn't change size. I hate them. My DH said something about scarring and I said I don't care. They're causing me to be hunched over and have back pain...I have indents in my shoulders from my bra straps. It sucks.
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If I didn't want them then no and I would be sitting down having a serious talk with him. However I do want implants after I'm done breastfeeding this baby -
I have implants but let me say I got them because I wanted them...you should never ever get implants because of someone else, if you can love yourself without them then by all fucking means you go girl!!!! My dh was actually against it for 5 years because he was worried about what the scars may do to my self esteem, after tons of research I went for it and even with the scarring I have(which I am that small percentage of women that has pretty bad scarring) I am happy, not because I did it for DH but because I did it for me
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Depends...how big is his Dick??? And if you supported it, should he get a "Dick job"? Lol!!!! Honestly, there could be risks and complications for either , the breast augmentation or the penis enlargement!!! My question to you is quite simple.... Would either of those procedures make you love him or him love you any more??? Would either of thwem make him any more of a man or you more of a woman??? Absolutley not!! You were both made perfect already. It would only help either of you feel better about yourselves for some undeserved feeling of inferiority, which would be false to begin with so its moot lanyway. Why conform to what's "deemed" to be desirable??? Acceptance is the key my friend. Screw popular opinion and all of that! Love what you have. You are what you were meant to be. LOVE IT!!!! -
I would not do it just becase he wants it done. The risks are too great. If you don't want them done then you should not get them done. You have to live with them 24/7. All of the risk is on you. You could loose all sensitivity to your breast and nipples. Some women after getting them wind up removing them and their breast look worse then if the just left them alone in the first place. Here are some forums so you can weigh the pros and cons. IMO your husband is selfish, he should not be pushing you to get them. My mother's friend got her breast done 6/8 months ago and still can't feel her nipples. Sad. If you want to get them and you are aware of the risks then that's another story. Good Luck!!!
http://www.justbreastimplants.com/forum/
http://www.breastimplantsupport.org/
http://www.realself.com/question/breast-implants-sensation-loss
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I don't even know my size my boobs are always shrinking and growing so I have some As and Bs. I want a boob job but he doesn't want me to get one