Love & Marriage
UPDATE: I talked to DH. He apologized so much and was really upset that I felt we was pressuring me. He promised me it had nothing to do with how he felt about me or my body, he just knew I had talked about it and felt like if I wanted to do it we could afford it now and it was a good time. Neither of us are getting any younger and I'm healthy. He totally agreed it should only be about my decision and my body. I think I will go to the consult and get all the info., then decide. Oh, and as far as the suggestions about him having something done, he's more than I can manage in that department, except maybe I could ask him to shave his facial hair I've never seen him without! Thanks for all the comments and suggestions. He really is a wonderful husband and realized he was selfish and dense with how he sounded.
I'm a 32B and always wanted beautiful breasts but nobody is perfect. However, ever since I mentioned it DH keeps bringing it up, saying it's up to me, he wants me to be happy, etc. Well, I was fine until he kept harping on it so yes, I get the idea, he thinks it would be great too. I adore him, love him totally and now feel self conscious like I did when we first met. I know he married me this way and he insists he loves me but I'm just depressed today. He'd be so sorry if he knew I couldn't get over worrying over this. I don't know whether I want to call a dr. office today for an appointment or toughen up and try to love the girls I have!
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Yes i am getting mine done. But it's because i really want to. I have no chest at all. I even wear bra's a little bigger so i can fill in tops. Yesterday i woke up and got dressed up just to hang out with dh. And he made a comment about it he said, "what did you do? Stuff your bra?" And it hurts my feelings.
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I want them once I lose enough weight. My husband doesn't care one way or the other, really. -
I would not implants to impress any man. However If I would decide to do so it would for my personal choice
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Not a chance! I'm very happy with what Mother Nature gave me and so is my husband.
If it's not broken, don't fix it!
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No I wouldn't. -
We don't want me to lose feeling and I've never had any surgery so that is scary. However, being disproportianate for clothes has always been a problem for me. Forget buying a suit, fitted dress or one piece. Also, funny he'd rather me go braless than wear padding!
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I want mine done but plan to wait until we're done having kids. DH is fine with me getting them though he doesn't care either way. 38D now but I have "mom boobs". Pregnancy and nursing didn't agree with my boobs at all. A lift and implants are certainly in my future! -
Tell him you'll get breast implants when he gets a penile implant!! :x
But seriously though.. no. It's MY body. If I wanted to do something to it (for me) then I would. But I wouldn't do it for any one else. I wouldn't allow someone to have that type of control over what I put on or in my body.
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I kinda see this two ways, one you opened the door to this by mentioning it to him, so I guess he thinks it is ok to keep pushing it. And two, he probably doesn't realize it is making you feel self consious. I want mine done. I have had 6 children and I am still in an A cup! I bought a bra from VS a few months ago, one of the ones that really makes you look bigger. It does a great job of faking me having a nice size. lol. But eventually, I want implants. That is my decision though. I know my man likes bigger breasts but has never complained about me being small.
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No mine are way to big lol I want a reduction