I think people give up on marriages to easily these days. I know that I gave up on my first marriage far to quickly and it haunted me for a long time. I think getting to the point of divorce, should be carefully thought about and talked out and if both parties truly feel that there just isn't any getting past the obstacles, then it could be considered. I, personally, will not divorce again unless there is abuse or multiple cheating incidents that can not be resolved.
How about the quick way out your try to jump start your marriage ! Make him fall in love with you all over again ! Like I said in a previous post be your husband girlfriend not his wife ! If he's not beating you cheating on you or anything else cruel you have a chance ! Hang in there !