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Could Your Marriage Survive? Take Our Polls!
December 16, 2010 at 4:12 PM

We just put up a series of polls about whether your marriage could survive after an affair. Tell us what you think here:

Poll #1: Outside the home

Poll #2: In your bed

Poll #3: Does location matter?

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Replies

  • NevadaSky
    December 16, 2010 at 6:19 PM

    I truly don't care where the affair happened.   If it happened I'd be gone, period!

  • BonitaM
    by BonitaM
    December 16, 2010 at 6:21 PM
    I agree with NevadaSky. I'd be gone!
  • bellaamore
    December 16, 2010 at 6:25 PM

    Sex is sex... many times for a man, it means nothing more than that... My marriage means to much to me!

  • NevadaSky
    December 16, 2010 at 6:32 PM

    My marriage means alot to me too!!! I am married to my best friend!!!  Been married 32 yrs. 

    2 reasons - that would put a halt to my marriage (even this far in) - Abuse or Affair.


  • BonitaM
    by BonitaM
    December 16, 2010 at 6:38 PM


    Quoting NevadaSky:

    My marriage means alot to me too!!! I am married to my best friend!!!  Been married 32 yrs. 

    2 reasons - that would put a halt to my marriage (even this far in) - Abuse or Affair.


    Same goes for me.  I love my husband with everything in me.  Those are the only two reasons I would ever leave him.  We've only been married 9 years but we've been to hell and back together and neither of us has been abusive or has cheated.  There's no excuse for either.

  • babybutastink
    December 16, 2010 at 7:19 PM

    I dont think I could get over being cheated on.  How would you ever trust someone again?  So regardless of when or where it happened if it did it would be over.

  • mitzicross
    December 16, 2010 at 7:22 PM

    A lot would depend on the circumstances of the affair, and how it ended, or if it did.  I would not tolerate more than one...but, I can understand that everyone is human and work out a one time mistake.  Even if it is more than a casual affair.  If my husband thought he were in love with someone else, and then came to his senses...I could still work it out.  Again...Once.  It wouldn't be pretty, though.  I think I would have to be a mess for a while.  Peace to all...tsk tsk

  • wilesmomma
    December 16, 2010 at 7:23 PM


    Quoting NevadaSky:

    I truly don't care where the affair happened.   If it happened I'd be gone, period!

  • mrssniffles
    December 16, 2010 at 7:43 PM

     I honestly don't know, I have been married to the same man since I was 17, he's the only man I've known, if he had an affair I think it would kill me... I honestly love him, I couldn't do that to our life.

  • funwit5
    by funwit5
    December 16, 2010 at 7:51 PM
    My husband has cheated on me ;( I let town we seperated for 6 months but got back together now were stronger then ever I know our bond is stronger "fool me once shame on u fool me twice shame on me"

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