The Best advice was from our pastor. Not to let your feelings rule your life. You can feel one way but how you choose to react is different. You have to follow what you know, and not how you feel. You know you love one another, and not every day is going to be perfect. Men can't read minds, and they don't get hints. You have to tell them what you need, and want. They are different from us. Love is not selfish, Love endures all things, and forgives and forgets.
My uncle told me the most successful marriages include God and never exclude Him. He also said we should always be open and respectful with one another. The worst advice was to give him ultimatums such as wash the dishes or I'm leaving, the person telling me this basically said threaten him to make him do what I want.