Wish I could say the same ... dh does 'bring home the bacon', but I actually pay the bills and then let him know - if he ask - how much money we have left, he rarely even asks, unless he wants to buy something. As for queen of the house ... gotta say that honor really goes to our cats, they (we have 2 of them) think they are the owners of this place & we are here souly to serve them!!!
ME...I'm the queen of this house, he just pays the bills...LOL
Dh brings the decorations upstairs from the basement for me, & he and dd actually assemble the tree ... but once it's up they both leave it to me to decorate. I do have to have them help though a little with some stuff that goes on the higher level of the tree; I'll just save that for the end after I've decorated the rest of it. I also decorate the rest of the house, but will also have to ask for a little bit of help here & there ... my knees (& back) no longer allow me to stand on chairs & other furniture to get some height to reach high spots ... & I'm short. As for outside, we haven't done that in several years.