It can be great but it takes time to get used to. Lots of lube is necessary or it will hurt alot and be basically impossible. You sefinitely have to be able to relax, my bf gives me a back nassage and works his way down and starts with a finger. Soon he will be able to put his dick in. That alone does not get me off. I usually use a bullet vibrator on my clit and it is pretty good. He loves it so that makes me happy.
Its great if im really really in the mood ..totally hot n bothered!!!!! but if im not that excited FORGET it, im uncomfortable and not having anal sex..hubby knows when im losing control and ready for anything tho :)