NO! . . .well, not really? . . .maybe???

[Alyson121]

"You have the right to say no. Most of us have very weak and flaccid "no" muscles. We feel guilty saying no. Your no muscle has to be built up. The more you say no, the more it comes naturally." - Iyanla Vanzant

[Alyson121]

This is SOOOO mean. I feel very guilty when i say no, especially if the other party gives me grief about not doing something THEY want me too. *sigh*

[Bleacheddecay]

Yep. Learning to say no is a good thing for everyone. You can't do everything for everyone though many of us try.

[Jillysmom]

I say no all the time, ask my hubby,lol

[calimom1123]

Me too! I actually have the opposite problem, I always say no first..lol

Quoting Jillysmom:

I say no all the time, ask my hubby,lol

[cookinmommyof1]

I used to have a problem saying no. Nthen I got sick of being stepped on, and I say no a lot. You can't help everyone

[darbyakeep45]

I hate saying no...it just feels wrong!  LOL!

[SabrinaLC]

I say no a lot

well, not straight out no

I can come up with 1,000 excuses though

[mypbandj]

What does "no" mean? Never heard of it. Lol

[Schleetle]

I flex mine around MIL all the time. :P

[Alyson121]

So very true.

Quoting Bleacheddecay:

Yep. Learning to say no is a good thing for everyone. You can't do everything for everyone though many of us try.