I was sitting inbetween my mom and a friend at church and they were texting each other before service started and i saw on my friends phone something about getting together on Dec 9th and moms phone said she will walk in and SURPRISE!! I am really upset they were texting while i was right there knowing i could see what they were talking about and now i dont know if i should say i know or go with the flow.. my mom asked me earlier if i wanted to meet with our bible study this weekend and i know its my surprise baby shower.. i dont know what to do and im really frustrated because i would have liked to have actually been surprised!! I know I should be happy and I am because I thought I wasnt going to get one at all.. it just sucks that I found out over them being careless and they are trying to cover it up so much it's obvious something is going on.. i want to say something so they dont keep blabbering and end up spoiling more of the surprise, but i dont want to hurt anyones feelings either
im sorry they were careless and ruined it for you but they are trying to do a good thing for you. i would act like i didnt know anything about it and just go with the flow. after all you are the one whose going to be rewarded with all those gifts.
Go. Just go . It may not be a surprise, but "it's the thought that counts" try to be happy that they care, surprise or not.. Many women have no one to offer them such support and gifts to help with the baby.