Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss Support
i've lost two this year. the second one was in august. my family is already asking me when we will try again! WTF! really? i just needed to vent. i can't believe that they know what i have been through and can even say such a thing.
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Ugh. It's hard when no one understands. I'm sorry. Hugs to you. -
I lost mine in july n everyone was all about oh ur young u can just try again i went on a cruise for my one year ann last month n came back will everyone asking if i got pregnant. Im like no! Ppl r asking when. It gets annoying. -
I have the opposite, I've had a doctor say...well, at least you have 5 healthy kids...and then I had a friend say...well, when do you stop...as if I'm too old...I don't care what anyone says, it's between my husband, I, and God.
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I'm sorry. Some people just need to put a foot in their mouth.
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i know that we will try again. i just don't need everyone hovering around waiting for it. as a matter of fact, i don't even want to think of it as trying. it will happen when my body is ready. not when other people think it should.
Quoting caitipenn:
I lost mine in july n everyone was all about oh ur young u can just try again i went on a cruise for my one year ann last month n came back will everyone asking if i got pregnant. Im like no! Ppl r asking when. It gets annoying. -
Exactly. I get to feel preasured. We decided to ttc again on our cruise but when we got back alot of stuff had happened with his mom n brother n we just got temp custoday of the youngest beother who is 6. So we r taking care of him n looking for a larger house to buy or rent so alot is ob our plate. N funny thing ppl still ask when we r going to get pregnant! Lol
Quoting purfectlilly:
i know that we will try again. i just don't need everyone hovering around waiting for it. as a matter of fact, i don't even want to think of it as trying. it will happen when my body is ready. not when other people think it should.
Quoting caitipenn:
I lost mine in july n everyone was all about oh ur young u can just try again i went on a cruise for my one year ann last month n came back will everyone asking if i got pregnant. Im like no! Ppl r asking when. It gets annoying.