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Peer Mediation @ Work? - UPDATE in Red.
by Wish2Be
October 4, 2012 at 2:13 PM

Have any of you had to do this? How did it go? Did it end well? Did you have any issues after the fact?

Just curious.

Thanks,
Michelle

Update - The girl got fired. I am shocked and upset by how it all went down, but I need to let meself understand that I didnt cause her to be fired. Its very hard.

Replies

  • proudmommy690
    October 4, 2012 at 2:16 PM
    never heard of it. but i also havent worked in almost 7 years.
  • EireLass
    October 4, 2012 at 2:44 PM

    Nah. It was much better telling her to fuck off.

  • MamaJane
    October 4, 2012 at 2:53 PM

     It didn't work when they did it at our church.

  • Wish2Be
    by Wish2Be
    October 4, 2012 at 10:27 PM


    Quoting EireLass:

    Nah. It was much better telling her to fuck off.

    I have been blowing her off for about a year and a half now....seems its not working anymore and I am sick of it.

    I told the boss...now I am being forced into peer mediation.

    Doesnt matter ...I am putting in my 2 weeks notice tomorrow.

  • EireLass
    October 4, 2012 at 10:35 PM

    For me it was the boss' wife. He tried to play mediator. I made them aware that while she was there, she was not his wife, but his employee, at the same level that I was. No more, no less. I deserved to be treated with respect, and not be undermined, or treated poorly, just because she has mental issues (per his words). I would not tip-toe around her. If that's what he expected he could take the job and shove it up his ass. Things changed. She backed off. Way off. And it became a better place to work without her interference.

    Quoting Wish2Be:
    Quoting EireLass:

    Nah. It was much better telling her to fuck off.

    I have been blowing her off for about a year and a half now....seems its not working anymore and I am sick of it.

    I told the boss...now I am being forced into peer mediation.

    Doesnt matter ...I am putting in my 2 weeks notice tomorrow.


  • LifeCafe42
    October 4, 2012 at 11:03 PM
    Yes I had to do mediation with a coworker with our bosses and the union rep. I was being bullied she ended up with a slap on the hand it was bull shit
  • Juniper53098
    October 4, 2012 at 11:25 PM

    no

  • momofsixangels
    October 4, 2012 at 11:33 PM

    Didnt even know they did this

  • Wish2Be
    by Wish2Be
    October 5, 2012 at 8:26 AM

     

    Quoting LifeCafe42:

    Yes I had to do mediation with a coworker with our bosses and the union rep. I was being bullied she ended up with a slap on the hand it was bull shit

     Yeah thats whats happening here.

  • Wish2Be
    by Wish2Be
    October 5, 2012 at 8:27 AM

     

    Quoting momofsixangels:

    Didnt even know they did this

     Some companies do and some dont.

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