We have lived apart from family for many years so we always just have a small gathering at home. This year my parents and I moved closer together, by life changes really so they'll be coming to my house for T-day :)
I usually host the gathering, stressful but love it, had a turkey off last year lol my brined turkey against hubby's turkey on the grill. Not sure who won. they were good, had 16 people and 40 lbs of turkey.