Moms with Teens
I have read several articles lately that outline teenage internet addiction. Although my girls don't have the symptoms for it, my son does. Do your kids fall into the category?
- Tolerance — Needing to play more and more in order to experience the same “rush”
- Obsession — Spending most offline time thinking about past online experiences and planning for future online sessions
- Frustration, anxiety, and/or irritability when not able to go online
- Abandoning friends and other hobbies in order to focus on online activities
- Continuing to spend time online even after negative repercussions (such as school problems, deteriorating relationships, and even health problems)
The following are among the specific signs that could indicate the presence of teen Internet addiction:
- Most non-school hours are spent on the computer or playing video games
- Falling asleep in school
- Falling behind with assignments
- Worsening grades
- Lying about computer or video game use
- Choosing to use the computer or play video games, rather than see friends
- Dropping out of other social groups (clubs or sports)
- Being irritable when not playing a video game or being on the computer
Physical symptoms associated with teen Internet addiction may include the following:
- Carpal tunnel syndrome (associated with repetitive motions such as excessive keyboard use)
- Insomnia
- Poor nutrition (failing or refusing to eat in order to remain online)
- Poor personal hygiene (again, neglecting this important issue in order to focus on online activities)
- Headaches, back pain, and neck pain
- Dry eyes and vision problems
Replies
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Good info, I think my son's addiction is to his cell phone more than his video games, due to that is his only contact with his gf. When I threatened to take the phone away for inappropriate behavior it was like trying to take a drug away from an addict. He threatened that it would ruin our relationship forever. Wow!!!
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Yep. That is my step-son. Whenever we had visitation, he would bury himself in either his video games, his cell phone, or his ipod. We'd take them away because he would do nothing but play those games. He wouldn't socialize with anyone except the people he met online.
We've tried to get the BM to help us limit his time but she doesn't care. Mainly because she's an internet addict herself.
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I'm chiming in, because this was on the top feed. I was addicted (and still am) to the internet. It's gotten better as I've gotten older, but alot of these signs I can relate to, even now at 28 years old. After having kids, my attention has focused more towards them, but I definitely have withdrawals if I don't get on at least once a day. Just like any addiction, really. This includes my phone.